Do the French mind having British Neighbours?

Client's Question: Do the French mind having British neighbours?

This is a question which occurs to many people when they start to consider the prospect of a move to France, either to a second home or to a permanent residence. Especially given that in certain areas of France there are a good number of ex-pats, and a few years ago there were stories circulating in the press about them not being particularly welcome.

I lived in France for more than half of my life and for 12 years solid until 2012, and drawing from my personal experience and that of the enormous number of ex-pats I have met, I can say that I have only ever been made to feel welcome amongst my French neighbours. People in rural areas have a real sense of community, and are genuinely interested in the fact that you have chosen their corner of France to make your new home, in fact they take it as a compliment that you have chosen to do so.

Always make an effort to introduce yourself on arrival, and extend an invitation for ‘aperos’ so that you can get to know them. Don’t let your language skills (or lack of!) hold you back. Arm yourself with a dictionary, they will really appreciate your efforts to converse with them in their own language, and the hospitality you have offered. In no time at all you will be exchanging eggs and vegetables and fruit from the garden!

Always attend village events where possible. In each commune there are those who work tirelessly throughout the year to put on fêtes and soirées for the benefit of those living there. These are a great occasion to experience local life as well as an opportunity to meet others living nearby. You will be warmly received.

Blog submitted by: David at Cle France.